02 May 2015

LOOK: Please do not hate me because I am beautiful

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Would you believe that it is six years ago, that I did not like blondes? And pink color too? Who thought at that time, that I would be blond myself. My wardrobe was all black and so was my hair. Take a look! Here! This is the only acceptable picture from the past. When I saw a blond actress on TV (God forbid in pink), I immediately switched to a channel with a brunette actress. All those Barbies were too stupid, too blond and too... pretty. And they had everything. At least I thought that they have everything. A fast car, shiny diamonds, a flawless manicure, perfect makeup, a nice flat, great friends and of course beautiful blond hair. And I had nothing. Except for the most wonderful chihuahua in the world. Mia. But even so I was happy in my own way. Sometimes. And sometimes not. Today, I have everything. More than I need, sometimes, I think more than I deserve. And I am richer by another (different) view of the world. And still I have the most wonderful chihuahua in the world. Mia.

I do not know when, how and why I decided to become blond. No, no one has forced me and I did it all alone and voluntarily. Immediately after I changed home, country, friends and wardrobe. It started quite innocently, having some highlighted hair. After adding more and more highlights I turn straight to peroxide blond. At times I ended up with my hair yellow or yellow with an orange touch or orange with a yellow touch and to this day, before each visit to the hairdresser salon, I have stomach cramps. I was there last week, because my natural dark hair came visible again through my peroxide jungle and one critical blog comment helped me to accelerate my decision to go. This comment hurt me in such a way, that I also had to delete it. But anyway, have you ever seen perfect blond hair after six weeks after the last hairdresser´s appointment? I am sure you did not. Everyone gets it. Including Madonna. But she is a goddess. (At least for me.) It does not count. This is the downside of wanting to have a Barbie-look.

To this day I do not know, for whom (except myself) and why I am coloring blond my hair. My boyfriend does not like it, my hairdresser probably too (because - she is a real brunette and if she would like to be blond, she would have done it by now. And in addition she cut my hair more than I wanted. I am sure she did it of envy and jealousy.) That is also why I am always hesitating to ask for other people´s opinion. Yes you are right, I am scared of their honest answer.

And no, being a blond now does not mean, that I do not like brunettes. Quite of the contrary. I would like to be one of them again, but plus this I would like to have even nougat skin and blue eyes and beautiful full lips and sporty figure and I do not know what else.

I believe, that one day I will wake up, maybe it will be a Monday, maybe a Friday, it will be beautiful sunny morning, I'll take a coffee, open a Harper's Bazaar (for those who do not know, it is a sci-fi magazine about fashion, where dresses are not called dresses, but an investment) and I will say – enough! It was enough to be blond! I will go to the nearest hairdresser and back home, I will be a completely different person. They say it like this. Right? A different person. But there is risky possibility, that I will hate blondes again.

Do you know some good joke about blondes?
Verili by ste, že pred takými šiestimi rokmi som neznášala blondíny? A ružovú tiež? Kto by to bol povedal, že sa raz ocitnem na takomto nenávideniahodnom mieste. Môj šatník bol celý čierny a moje vlasy tiež. Veď sa pozrite! Tu! Toto je jediná fotka z minulosti, na ktorú sa dá pozerať. Chvíľu. Keď som v telke zazrela blond herečku (nedajbože v ružovej), okamžite som prepínala na herečku brunetku. Všetky tie tuctové barbíny boli príliš hlúpe, príliš blond a príliš… pekné. A mali všetko. Aspoň som si myslela, že majú všetko. Rýchle auto, trblietavé diamanty, bezchybnú manikúru, perfektný makeup, krásny byt, skvelých priateľov a krásne blond vlasy. A ja som nemala nič. Až na jednu najúžasnejšiu čivavu na svete. Miu. Ale aj tak som bola svojím spôsobom šťastná. Sem-tam. A sem-tam nešťastná. Dnes mám všetko. Viac než potrebujem, niekedy si myslím, že viac než si zaslúžim. A som bohatšia o ďalší (iný) pohľad na svet. A ešte stále mám tú najúžasnejšiu čivavu na svete. Miu.

Ani neviem kedy, ako a prečo som sa rozhodla ísť znovu na blond. Nie, nikto ma k tomu nenútil a urobila som to celkom sama a dobrovoľne. Hneď po tom, čo som zmenila byt, štát, priateľa a šatník. Začalo to celkom nevinne. Melírom. A ďalším melírom a potom tých melírov bolo už toľko, že som sa rozhodla namočiť rovno celú hlavu do peroxidu. Občas som skončila s vlasmi žltými s oranžovým nádychom alebo oranžovými so žltým nádychom a do dnešného dňa to mám tak, že sa mi pred každou návštevou kaderníctva robia žalúdočné vredy. Naposledy som tam bola minulý týždeň. Donútil ma k tomu (až) jeden kritický komentár na moje odrastené vlasy. Ranil ma tak hlboko a do najpresnejšieho miesta, že som ho musela okamžite vymazať. Ale veď, videli ste už nejakú blondínu bez odrostov? Nevideli. Majú ich všetky. Vrátane Madonny. Lenže ona je bohyňa. (Aspoň pre mňa.) To sa neráta. Odrosty sú skrátka daň za barbínovský look.

Do dnešného dňa neviem, pre koho (okrem seba) a prečo to robím – farbím sa na blond. Môjmu priateľovi sa to nepáči, mojej kaderníčke pravdepodobne tiež (lebo - ona je naozajstná bruneta a keby sa jej páčila blond hriva, tak ju už dávno má a navyše ma viac strihla, než som chcela. Určite zo závisti a nenávisti.) a ostatných okolo sa radšej nepýtam. Neviem, či to chcem vedieť.

Nie, nemám to teraz naopak - žeby som neznášala brunetky. Práve naopak. Rada by som jednou z nich bola, ale k tomu by som chcela aj nugátovú pokožku a modré oči a krásne plné pery a vyšportovanú postavu a čo ja viem čo ešte.

Verím, že raz sa jedného dňa zobudím, možno to bude pondelok, možno piatok, bude krásne slnečné ráno, dám si kávu, otvorím si Harper´s Bazaar (pre tých, kto nevedia, tak je to sci-fi časopis o móde, kde sa šaty nenazývajú šatami, ale investíciami) a poviem si, že stačilo! Stačilo byť blond! Zájdem si do najbližšieho kaderníctva a domov sa vrátim ako úplne iný človek. Takto sa to hovorí. Nie? Iný človek. Ale je dosť pravdepodobné, že potom znovu začnem neznášať blondíny.

Nepoznáte nejaký dobrý vtip o blondínach?




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top Boohoo, jacket Zara, skirt H&M, shoes Zara, handbag Guess, earrings Swarovski

BB cream Vichy, powder Estée Lauder, eyeshadows Estée Lauder, eyeliner L´Oreal, pigments Essence, mascara Maybelline, blush Estée Lauder, lipstick Rimmel

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39 comments

  1. Krása :-) Nejvíc mě oslnily ty boty :o :-)

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    1. Hezké jsou, ale vubec se v nich nedá chodit. Na focení stačí :)

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  2. toto ti strasne pristane.. aj ked sa mi vacsinou nepaci spojenie svetlo ruzovej s ciernou..toto vyslo.. paci sa mi vsetko a kabelku s topankami by som brala hned aj to sacko....

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    1. Mne to príde tiež ako silná kombinácia, ale vieš ako... čo šatník dal... :)

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  3. The Shoes are so cute :)

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  4. The jacket is mazing! Thanks for your visit and for follow Ema I follow you too :)
    Bj S

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    1. You are welcome S. I am always on hunt for new blogs :)

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  5. I think everyone should try blonde hair at least once! I was blond for two years and often people wouldn't recongize me. My own uncle walked past me and didn't reconize me. I wouldn't go back to blond (never say never, right?) but I'm glad I had that experience.

    Blond hair is not easy to maintain...Colouring our hair always damanages it, even if slightly. However, if you really like blond hair, you should keep it. What matters most is how you feel about it.

    I do really like this outfit, especially the heels! You look very lady like and dressed up! pretty in pink<3

    thank you for your comment...I do sometimes put too many photos but it is hard to decide which one to post, especially if I visit some nice place and I want to show it to my readers.

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    1. Dear Ivana, thank you for sharing your story with me and with my nice followers :)

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  6. absolutely beautiful, dear! xoxoo

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  7. girl, i love that bag of yours, is beautiful
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  8. Great look dear!

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  9. great post as always :)

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  10. Bundička je naprosto úžasná!!! Ta mě teda dostala na první pohled!! :)

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  11. So much love for your jacket and shoes!!

    XX from Germany
    Jecky
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  12. Thank you girls for your comments :)

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  13. wow stunning look! absolutely love the jacket! you look so chic :D

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  14. I have no prejudices at all about one's haircolour! :) I'm a mix of blonde & brunette myself, and I love every haircolour. Maybe that's what London did to me, as everyone here do their thing, and I've seen many people, guys and girls with crazy hair colours, and no one cares :)
    So don't let the negative comments get to you, and just do whatever you want! As long as you feel comfortable, it's all ok!

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  15. so gentle pink color! it suits you! =)
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  16. Very pretty and elegant, I really love your bag :)

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  17. Pri čítaní som sa fakt pobavila. Trefné a vtipné Ema! V outfite vyzeráš skvele a predviedla si krásnu ružovočiernu kombináciu. :-)
    Pekný deň.
    Katharine-fashionisbeautiful

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  18. Úžasný outfit! Tie topánky aj bunda sú proste skvelé :) A veľmi pekný článok, tiež mám niekedy taký názor na blondínky v telke, ale kto vie, možno aj ja raz vyskúšam ísť na blond :D
    GlitterCircus

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  19. Nádherné boty, mám slabost pro růžovou a takováhle pastelová je ta nejúžasnější...Máš úžasný styl :)

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  20. Elegant look, love it.

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    See you soon
    Kisses

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  21. I love everything in your outfit! It screams perfection <3

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  22. Gorgeous look! Love the pastel pinks on you! And the purse is so pretty!

    -Krystin
    www.girlinbetsey.com

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  23. I am sure you'd look gorgeous whether blond or brunette. I have never changed my hair color but for starters I want to get some highlights, but still too scared whether or not, it'd suit me.
    Love your barbie look pinky & blonde

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  24. Amazing outfit dear! Love your dress and shoes! :)

    Isa M., Tic Tac Living

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  25. Beautiful look and it suits you perfectly! The jacket is so pretty, love the color!

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